TESTIMONIALS

Shannon Summers

“I got the hope, the green light, the initiative, that I didn’t have to stay stuck, you were the helping hand you reached out grabbed and said “Come with me, it’s OK!” It doesn’t have to be like this, you don’t have to stay here. You’re allowed. Iris was my green light. Iris helped me find the direction and go forward”

Anne E

I thank you for that perfect timing when you contacted me Iris. So glad to have been taken on this journey with you and sharing “sights and insights” with all the other ladies in our group. …

Constanza R

“I met a wonderful man. We dated for two months, he is a wildlife photographer so he took me on some of his trips. We spent several weeks traveling through jungles, mountains and volcanos. He treated me like a Queen. I didn’t have to beg for his attention; however after a couple of months he became distant, emotionally unavailable and while I was very sad I had the integrity to move on and not to chase him the way I would have in the past.” …

Donna Bechtold

After my husband died I decided: “Surely God didn’t make just one good man and decided that I would take a chance and at 71 that I would try online dating. I saw many dating coaches being interviewed and so I chose Iris because I knew I needed her professional counselling experience in addition to her dating experience. …

Maya G

Very excited, and thank you for taking me through this journey it was a long and at times bumpy road and i am in a very happy place now, actually the happiest I’ve ever been. I’m so in love with my Man!

Nicole Gallucci

I have “spoken” to a few people in the past but none with a commitment to continue – until I met Iris. There is truly something unique about Iris, perhaps it is her own life experiences, her life coaching training or simply her unique wisdom. …

Donna

“There are men out there, it takes a lot of guts to get online and find them. I have always been a big believer of getting help if I need it. I would recommend for anyone who’s serious to hire a dating coach. I figured out what I want with your help Iris. …

Anne Augustine,

 

Psychotherapist

 

Iris is incredibly skillful in her approach. Through well-timed questions and observations, she has supported me in becoming increasingly clear about who I am and what I am capable of. As a result of my work with Iris, I have begun to set healthy boundaries for myself by learning to let go of feeling responsible for others’ behaviours. …

Lori C ,

 

Psychotherapist

 

My experience with Iris has been transformational and rewarding. Iris has been helping me navigate through many of the historical elements of my life that have been getting in my way of not only eventually finding the man who will cherish me for the woman that I am but also helping me clear the unhelpful patterns that are present in all of my relationships. …

Patricia ,

 

Teacher, Mother

 

“Working with Iris has literally changed my life. She has provided me with the skills I needed to take a look deep within myself and reflect on the real me. …

Karensa Staddon ,

Entrepeneur, Mother

In my experience with Iris as a coach, she has made me feel safe and has accepted me the way I am. Iris didn’t give me the answers to my challenges but rather gave me the tools to find my own answers. 

Jane Sorsdahl ,

Entrepeneur, Mom of 2

I have known and used Iris as a coach since April of 2004. It was my first experience of personal coaching.What I am most grateful for is Iris’ coaching and what distinguishes it from my other ‘self-development’ work is that it was all about me. 

Nancy P ,

Interior Designer

Iris has been instrumental in helping me get my life back on track. She has guided me to define my vision for my life and supported me while I took action to make it come true. Her patience, support and clear vision have made her invaluable as a coach.

Maryann

I feel a lot more confident. I can identify what I want. And I see myself taking a lot more time in relationships – I used to jump right in and not look at what was there for the long haul – I feel the transformation on a gut level. I feel wonderful. I’m having the best time ever.

KT

I really wasn’t looking to find a man of my dreams. I wanted to find me again. I’m feeling more confident. I now have two men I’m dating and I had 2 dates for one night last night and had to say “I’m busy…and I haven’t done that in a long time.” …

Alysha K

I set personal boundaries and proactively stated what I need in a relationship. I allowed myself to hear my mind, body and soul tell me that it is really finally time to let go of a toxic relationship that is not healthy for me. …

Melissa Gomez

I am noticing that I am not so afraid of making mistakes anymore. That feels so liberating! I have realized that I am not suppose to be perfect , that I am here to learn and that with every mistake I become a better person and I LOVE IT!! 

Laura Tribble

Through listening to you coach another woman in our LACY group I realized how in my past relationships I had been settling for crumbs now that I’m fully aware I can go for the whole cake and now I have been more & more motivated & encouraged to take action.

Mona H

Iris, you kicked my butt (in the most essential way) and I really, really needed it! Also today, I got that additional reinforcement that what I have been settling for is seriously not good enough!! I am now committed to having only the most extraordinary relationship(s) going forward!! Thank you for all you do for me. (and the group)

Maryann Donna W

When I look back at the time I first heard Iris and her ideas of finding that perfect one for me I was skeptical but very interested. You see, I had a soul mate and wasn’t sure if it was possible to have another. I spoke with her and she was able to show me a couple of reasons why I was afraid of getting hurt. …

Beverly Robson

On January 10, 2007, the Peterborough Chapter of Women In a Home Office was granted the opportunity to hear from Iris Benrubi a thoughtful and thought provoking presentation on creating balance in our busy lives. …

Joan Hamilton

Iris presented her viewpoint about the purpose of coaching to the Canadian Association of Women Executives and Entrepreneurs. Her words of wisdom were attentively listened to by everyone at the meeting. She was congratulated for inspiring attendees to explore the possibilities within so that they might joyfully attain their passions and purpose.

Christy Sharafinski

What a neat interview, Iris!
Once again, there you are bringing all sorts of value to your loyal fans! 

Christy Sharafinski sharafinski@comcast.net www.Imagine.TheBestTrend.com

Dr.Berger & Dr.Bukmuz

We have been referring patients over the last few years for counselling to Iris, and our patients as well as ourselves have been very satisfied with her service.

Dr.M. Greenberg

Pediatrician

Iris presented her viewpoint about the purpose of coaching to the Canadian Association of Women Executives and Entrepreneurs. Her words of wisdom were attentively listened to by everyone at the meeting. She was congratulated for inspiring attendees to explore the possibilities within so that they might joyfully attain their passions and purpose.